being the wife of hugh hefner

 In the life of a woman of Hugh Hefner
In the days that followed the announcement of her engagement with Crystal Harris, 24 year old Playmate, Hugh Hefner took advantage of the hype to deny certain rumors that his beloved Playboy Mansion would be newly covered with dog poop.
When it was 24 years, sharing the life of the legendary octogenarian owner of Playboy and is not necessarily a fairy tale.
In the days that followed the announcement of her engagement with Crystal Harris, 24 year old Playmate, Hugh Hefner took advantage of the hype to deny certain rumors that his beloved Playboy Mansion would be newly covered with dog poop.

"We have a dog at the Manor (Charlie) and he is clean," he said recently on Twitter.

The British tabloid Daily Mail had called the Manor of "squalid prison" regimented by a senior authoritative, who paid a weekly pension girlfriends and organized party on thin thin part in his ramshackle home. The paper had a lot of revelations in a book published four years ago by Izabella St. James, a former girlfriend, who seems to have a grudge against Hefner and a gift for emphasis. Anyway, the question worth asking: How does it feel, being married to Hugh Hefner?

Go to bed early, watching old movies
If one believes biographies, profiles and interviews with the man, his newspaper has obviously nothing too exciting. In fact in prison, the Playboy mansion seems to be a particularly sexy bit: the schedule is strict, there are bed early and you look old movies. The visionary who popularized the concept of burial of bachelorhood Standing happens to be a homebody stilted and follower of the old school. This is not surprising. After all, Hugh Hefner is 84 years old.

Summarize his career marriage. Hefner has been married twice-in 1949, with Millie Williams, a school friend, who gave him two children, then in 1989, with the Playmate Kimberley Conrad, with whom he had two more. The first marriage lasted ten years. According to Steven Watts, a historian at the University of Missouri, the first break is due to incompatibility of temperament of both spouses and infidelity manifest Hefner. But the second (which dates back more than ten years and their divorce was not rendered until recently) is due to the cramped lifestyle of astonishment playboy.

"The strict timetable of her husband seems to have been a source of discontent," said Mr. Watts in Playboy, a biography of Hefner. According to Watts, the manor, the program was always the same: four nights a week, projected films for guests (on Mondays, only men were invited, was the day of the "manly evening"). On Wednesday, we played cards with friends. Watts explains that Conrad could not be done in this life without surprises. She wanted a little more spontaneity, "a simple dinner tete-a-tete," or "an evening in a piano-bar" - and wanted to get away from the prying eyes of guests
In an interview with the Washington Post in 1999, Conrad said qu'Hefner was "very authoritative" and "extremely possessive."

"I had returned early, around 17:30 or 18:00, she said. And every day of the week. It was on his schedule, so to speak. It was all a bit monotonous. And if I wanted to go to bed at 23:00, he insisted that I stay with him until one or two o'clock in the morning to watch movies. I explained that I wanted to go to bed early, to be able to get up at 6:30 am and exercise. That put him in a bad mood. He does not like being alone. "

Thursday and Saturday is nightclub

After the break, in 1998, Conrad and his two son moved into a house near the mansion. A few years later, another Washington Post article described new patterns Hefner. Family Night on Tuesday, with Conrad and boys. Thursday and Saturday evenings in night clubs with his seven girlfriends. (The number of concubines Hefner has evolved over the years and seems never to have exceeded this figure in September was smaller for a time, Hefner has lived with a trio of close-knit, comprised of a woman named Brande and twins, Mandy and Sandy.)

Hefner has worked hard to give his lifestyle the appearance of a play in which he plays the role of a benevolent patriarch surrounded by a group of excited women, eternally young and almost interchangeable. "I am the head of a girl-scout camp," he once said. In the alley leading to the mansion, a sign we made this eternal promise: "The fun playmates [" Playmates at Play "].

A register of sexual activity
But this relaxed picture collides with the nature of man, workaholic obsessive dictating to his girlfriends art and how to have fun. Several of these have, like Conrad, expressed irritation with these rules, a lifestyle more "strict" as one of them, the staff of the mansion was for example responsible for recording their comings and goings. They did not like to have imposed a curfew of twenty-one hours (which was quite necessary, as Hefner, as he explained it recently: "I did not want them to go somewhere else!" ). He said keep an accurate record of his sexual activity as a mere "observation notes," he said.

While it is always difficult to analyze how a couple (and even more when a household to four) is that the bonds of Hefner seem to end for no real reason. Some girlfriends have found a new companion, others have changed careers (reality shows, entertainment erotic burlesque). According to Hefner, one of the concubines (Holly Madison) wanted to become his wife, and she was devastated by her refusal. Several of his ex-girlfriends said they were divided on this period of their lives. In an interview with U.S. Weekly, Kendra Wilkinson, who played his own role as concubine Hefner in the reality show "Girls Next Door" says she did not see him very often when she lived at the manor and they "never went out together in head-to-head. She says she "completely opposed" to going out to several, and speaks with gratitude Hefner somewhat mixed.

"Hef was like my best friend, but he also had a side sugar daddy," she says.

Being the number one
But then, who could, strongest of all this information, yet want to marry Hugh Hefner? The interchangeability of her girlfriends is probably one of the main answers: marriage is all about security. Being the wife of Hefner's better than being the number one (as he awarded to one of his concubines, when more than one). This title is conditioned by "seniority" and some similarities. Hefner had a habit of saying that he had awarded the title of No. 1 in Madison, a former Hooters girl, because she shared his love for Bix Beiderbecke, jazz musician of the 1920s (which is frankly not credible). But this position is somewhat precarious, and Madison has learned to his cost. In an interview after the break, Hefner said that "girls were lined up outside the gate of the manor" to replace it.

In Hefner, marriage is also synonymous with monogamy. Steven Watts (author of Mr Playboy) mansion explains that the rules are not the same for everyone: the concubines need to be faithful, but Hefner, he can do what he wants. His conception of marriage, however, seems to have evolved from his first marriage. Hefner says he has never cheated before their breakup Conrad, and on The Daily Beast, he said he wanted to be faithful to his new wife. Harris already seems to play a leading role in the manor: the latest concubines, the twins Kristina and Karissa, there are parties almost a year.

Whether or not the spouses elect for a marriage contract, it goes without saying that Ms. Hefner will enjoy some financial benefits. It will probably not endure the humiliating ritual described by former girlfriends: line up to receive a "budget dress" »$ 1,000 weekly.

Finally, you may want to become Mrs. Hugh Hefner love to live simple and safe (if one can speak of love). Hefner and Harris seem today feel a great affection for each other. For Christmas she gave him a painting commissioned by him, representing the couple and their dog (the famous Charlie). Hefner was the gift of an engagement ring hidden in box-themed musical The Little Mermaid (her favorite movie. And we're not the first to point out she was only 3 years when the output of the cartoon).

In interviews given, Harris says she does not notice their age difference. Hefner praises her devotion that she is his "soul mate", and compares their history to that of Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall. It would Extasia recently on Twitter: "This is the good life, my friend. Provided it lasts forever. "